This Book was absolutely phenomenal. Hurt people hurt people stuck with me! After reading this lesson, i realized alot of times i’ve wondered, ‘why the heck does she/he continue to accuse or assume i did this or that?’ After reading this point, my light bulb came on again, it has nothing to do with me! His/her actions are because THEY suffering past hurt on their end. 40 life lessons was a page turner and allowed me to realize ‘protecting my space’ (lesson 30) is my number 1 concern!